the quest begins

the quest begins.......

:D or shall i say began 2 + years back ~ some where in 2006 ~

i started by registering on one of the sites , then the next and then another one , completely my style ~ full blast

started to meet people , one after the other , reading articles on line , mathematical and statical models , random stuff to find how to find the best suited person .

i as always wanted to revolutionize and change forever the ART of getting married into the SCIENCE of getting married . save the world from the " divorce " and the related evils - after all we have so many tools now than our parents ever had ( but only as much brain power )


i assumed that it was strange that people did not do this , with all the tools at hand , dozens of personality tests ,I Q testes , websites that ranked peoples physical appeal , with numbers and theory at my side i would conquer the " PROCESS " and forever ensure that people would step into marriage confident that this is the right partner , the one who they will remain with
" happily ever after " and they will have numbers and data and Theories to support this .


my first few interactions were ... well i must say immature , i was sad at the kind of things i talked about , i realized that every one must have training in " mate selection related interaction " there has got to be a list of things that must be covered rather than leaving the table having made conversation about the weather that was and that will be dominating and eating away the precious few meeting's that are allowed in " the process "

i started to read more vigorously - pop came books from the American stores - all kinds , covering dimensions from the general christian way to the gene's eye view , to the practical ways of identifying a person in 2 meetings or less to the heavy psychological behavioral analysis kinds .

and i came up with my lists and then theories and later business plans
( again unimplementable ones :D )

~ the MUST haves and the MUST NOT haves ~ list

" the pool to pick theory "

" the theory of equals "

" the predict to prepare theory "

" the optimism and time theory "


i must say i have spent an unjustifiable time doing this experiment on my self - and its bad ~ sad , stupid , crazy criminal waste of one's own and others precious life besides being a drain on energy , emotion and time for all

do not do this on yourself ever ! learn from ME !!!!!